Beyond appearances - the quest for healing context

The following is a clear and helpful interaction, to come to understand that it is necessary to look beyond appearances.

As part of the work of Planting Paradise, it is necessary to address and resolve unresolved issues.
It is a healer's job (and, if you wish, a boy scout's honour).

In order to solicit support for this work, a request was put in with AdSense, the Google targeted advertising service.

Two letters: 1) request for ads denied, 2) please reconsider and help
The following is the policy compliant response from AdSense that was received to the request for added ad income.
Immediately after it follows the reply which was sent out to AdSense; requesting reconsideration. Because, indeed, this site addresses "Adult" content. It does so, to show that it is in fact unresolved adolescent behaviour. Help is welcome for this, and targeted ads to show the way to spiritual training groups, academic social behaviour programs, and so on will offer a helpful context indeed to come from Problem Based Thinking to Solution Oriented Creations.

Family-safe ads may be just the remedy to reframe the many derailed view on sex.
Sex and families go hand in hand; more than that even.

Understand that sex (in pornography) and sexuality (in parental bonding) deals with precisely the same issue.
What is often lost from view is the way the two are related.

It is precisely the impersonal noncommittal aspect of sex, and the personal committed experience of sexuality that need to be bridged cq healed.
As one might say (in the present time) "it's a dirty job but someone's gotta do it".
Why don't we all do it, and have the issue resolved 'within minutes'...

The two letters present thw two perspectives that need to be bridged.
On the one hand there is the careful concern of the AdSense representative.
On the other hand you find the healer proposing a healing context.

Letter 1: AdSense policy does not support Adult Content Sites

Hello,

Thank you for your interest in Google AdSense.

After reviewing yourapplication, our programme specialists have found that it does not comply with our policies.
Therefore, we're unable to accept you into Google AdSense at this time.

We did not approve your application for the reasons listed below.
If you are able to resolve these issues, please feel free to reply to this email for reconsideration when you have made the changes.

Issues: - Adult content
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Further detail:
Adult content:
Currently, only Google ads that we classify as family-safe are available through the AdSense programme. We've found your site to be predominantly adult or mature in nature. Therefore,we're unable to display relevant ads on your site. Please review ourpolicies (https://www.google.com/adsense/policies?hl=en_GB) for acomplete list of site content not allowed on web pages.

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For a complete list of AdSense criteria, please visit:https://www.google.com/adsense/policies?hl=en_GBhttps://www.google.com/adsense/localized-terms?hl=en_GB
If you would like to submit another website for consideration, simply reply to this email and provide us with the URL. If this new website complies with our programme policies, we will help you start delivering Google ads in minutes.
Please contact us at adsense-uk@google.com if you have any questions.

Regards,

The Google Team

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Letter 2: A healing context helps heal

Hello,

Thank you for replying to my request for sponsorship for the project that i am doing.

I appreciate your considerations and respect your answer.
Please however take a closer look at http://internetxxx.blogspot.com/.

As you will see in reviewing the web site more closely, you will see that it is intended to resolve the issue of internet sex, by realising that the problem cloaks a solution.

Carefully selected ads would in fact help achieve this: psychology books, education programs, social and communication skills training, and academic institutions and spiritual councelling would qualify for this.
Precisely by having such carefully selected ads, this offers a context by which the problem at hand can be sorrounded by a context of solutions.

As the site presents it: internet sex is a problem that seeks a solution.
What you termed adult content - the common terminology - is in fact unresolved puberescent behaviour.

Internet sex is a (trans)muted cry for help.
It is time that people come to the call and offer solutions.

As a MD, i learned that it is necessary to diagnose the problem to come to a solution.
In the case of internet sex, it is consequence of careless education, with a denial of human sexuality.

As the site aims to set out, the problem cannot be resolved as long as the basis of the problem is denied: the unresolved issues around sexuality.
As long as people do not realise that sexuality and spirituality are part of the same concept - creation - what could lead to a solution will remain a problem.

Apart from training as MD i also studied as engineer.
The site is intended to build a bridge: starting on one side of the abyss to connect to the other.

Sex is a problem only as long as people deny its purpose in human existence. And acknowledge that it is not a personal issue, but quite impersonal.
Sex does not help us, to survive, but our species. Sex is not a personal issues of humans, but an impersonal need of humanity.

Help is needed.
I hope you can offer help precisely by offering the context of help, through the ads that may offer links to further and deeper insights.

I would welcome if you could reconsider your decision.
I would welcome the support of ads which link to institutions and trainings, scooling and counselling that can help resolve the problem

I look forward to your answer

Feel well

O#o

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As in any change of direction: it is always one step at a time, and one instance after another.

The question is, how long will it take to make a change, if no change is made?